Katherine, gaining your independence is so important to you. You want a say in your life and you want to do things by yourself. As much as you’ll always be my baby girl, I love seeing you become an independent little person.A couple of days ago when I unbuckled you from the car seat and wanted to lift you out of the car, you looked at me (with that serious look you have) and shook your head. You then proceeded to carefully slide out of the car seat until you came to stand in the car. From there you climbed onto the back seat, turned yourself around and proceeded to inch forward to slide out of the car; making sure I was close by, just in case, but making a choice not to take my hand. This wasn’t a quick motion, but you methodically kept moving forward until you made your way to standing in the garage. I closed the car door under your watchful eye and we proceeded to walk into the house, where you walked straight to the stairs, sat down on the bottom step and began taking off your shoes. This isn’t as easy as it may sound; pulling off sturdy winter shoes with your little hands takes quite a bit of effort, but when you are determined to do something, you do it. After you took off your shoes, you put them away in the closet… and then there was that serious look again, motioning me to take off my shoes as well (what was I thinking, we were in the house already – and yes, I admit I didn’t get right on that as I was watching you). Before I could do anything else you took my shoes and put them in the closet as well (lined up just the way they are supposed to) and closed the closet door.
When you turned around to look at me, your face was shining with pride.
You are teaching me that it’s my job to not get in your way as you are growing up; to make sure you are safe, well taken care of and loved and above all to be proud of you every day for what you do and who you become. I love you always and forever.
