It’s hard to
believe you are already 4 years old today. People always tell me to be mindful
of those early years we have with a child, they pass so quickly. You have grown
from a toddler into a young girl – especially these last few months you have
become more assertive, confident and independent. Your world is growing with
preschool and friends and you are embracing all of it.
I am in awe
watching you learn life skills. I am
constantly reminded that it’s your daddy’s and my job to teach you, and also
model the right behaviour for you. Things we take for granted, like crossing
the road: we are teaching you to stop, look left-right-left and when it’s safe,
start walking. You have caught me more than a few times where I looked in
passing instead of really stopping at the edge of the sidewalk. There is
nothing like a little girl yelling “STOP”, followed by a stern “you did not look”
comment. Point taken! Rules are there to be followed, right?
But I also still
love those moments when it’s just you and me time – when we snuggle together,
play together and read together. I have to admit, I’m not ready to give up those
moments quite yet and I’m hoping as you grow older they’ll shift into moments
where we have meaningful conversations, share some laughs and simply spend
quality time together.